Many of my callers use phone sex to explore new sexual terrain. These are guys who have been fantasizing about a sexual act, kink or fetish, but have yet to actualize it. For some guys, it’s just a matter of getting past the fear and anxiety of actualizing their fantasies. It can take a long time for some to put their fantasies into action. For others, it’s a fairly short trip. For still others, it becomes clear, usually after some experimentation, that it’s something that should remain in the realm of fantasy.
We’ve all been in that place where we discover new things (some freaky, some not) that really turn us on when we’re jerking off. However, it may be unclear if want to partake in real life. Again, it’s hard to know whether it’s our fear and anxiety that’s keeping us from acting on it. Virtually everything I’ve fantasized about, I’ve also actualized. In the very least, I wanted to know whether I’d like it – the ultimate try-sexual. And being the sexual freak I am, in most cases, I liked it, I really liked it! But I do understand the grey area where many of you exist, in that zone between fantasy and reality.
I will say one thing, however, about the “how will I know if I like it?” crowd. It’s akin to the question that young gay and lesbian kids are asked when they declare their sexuality before they’ve actually had sex: “How do you know?” For most, they just do. It’s the same thing for straight kids, except that they’re not asked the question. We all know that there’s plenty of confusion and experimentation when we’re young. But, in most cases, we do know, if we’re being honest with ourselves, who we are sexually.
My experience has been that “confusion,” especially once we’ve reached our twenties, is code for “I know, but I’m afraid to admit it.” If it’s fueling your fantasies and you’ve become pre-occupied with thinking about it, there’s some there there. And it helps to talk about it. It’s hard to be out there on your own. I can help you work through it AND we can talk about it in all of it’s dirty, nasty glory! That’s a two-for-one deal that’s hard to resist.
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